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Coaching Just For Men With Jana Fleming

Jana Fleming

Men are a specialty in my coaching practice. I enjoy supporting men to embrace the feelings that for decades they have suppressed. Our culture doesn’t encourage men to openly share their inner most feelings. We have words for boys who are too in touch with their emotions like, ‘sissy, cry baby.’ Boys are admonished to be a ‘big boy’ and ‘don’t cry’ they are encouraged to repress and shut down their emotions. This creates a BIG problem! An emotional volcano ready to erupt. It is common for men to suppress their feelings and stuff them only to end up feeling resentful and ashamed when their feelings get the best of them and they ‘lose it’!

I have been told by my male clients:

I like the way you are direct and to the point.

I feel safe to share my feelings without judgment.

I like how you push me and confront me on subjects that normally I am not willing to address. Basically, you don’t take any ‘crap’ from me – you are strong yet I know you care.

You remind me of the coach in high school who knew the right timing to push and when to hold back.

I started my coaching practice with the intention to coach only women. It had never occurred to me that coaching men would be an area that I really enjoyed and had a natural affinity. The most important thing for me to do with any client whether they are male or female is to create a safe place for them so they can open up without fear of judgment. Compassion is paramount in the process of evolving, growing and living with freedom from negative states of being.

Coaching Testimonials:

Emotional healing is a topic men are not comfortable with (me included) but Jana showed me that it’s necessary if you want to move forward it takes courage to look within. For me, it’s important to not only heal my emotions but to feel liberated from them.

Jana has helped me look at the venomous remains of my painful past experiences that were acting like boulders upon me which constantly and repeatedly revealed itself by limiting my ability to give and receive love. It all starts with love but not always the love for others. It could be simply the love you have for you.

Men need help too!!!! To move forward she “guided” me in the some deep inner healing processes. She supported me to let go of pain, and find the gifts from my past in doing so I rediscovered joy. Jana has a unique ability of communicating with men. We were able to discuss all topics openly and I felt nurtured as only a woman can give. She delivered the best of both worlds. I highly recommend Jana as a coach to all my friends. We all deserve peace of mind and peace of spirit. She simply “get’s it”.

Thanks Jana!

~ Hugo Morales, San Diego

Jana,

I wanted to write you just to say how grateful I am that you came into my life. Had I not met you when I did, I don’t know where I would be right now. But because of your clarity and the light you shined on my inner world, I am on a completely different life path. This morning, I accepted a job offer from a fantastic new start up.

As you taught me, I have been envisioning the exact kind of environment and people that I deserve to work with and, lo and behold, it manifested itself when the timing was right. I am awed by the power of spirit. I am indebted to you for the rest of my life for allowing me to truly forgive, to gain a right understanding about my relationship to God and to break free of the chains of bondage of object referral. My inner world, while not yet completely weeded, is on track to become a beautiful garden in this lifetime.

Thank You! Thank You! Thank You!

Carlton van Putten, San Diego, CA

Jana,

I just want to share with you what an impact your coaching, principles, guidance and support have had on my life. Before my coaching with you I felt lost and without direction in life. I felt disconnected and and carried a lot of guilt and shame leftover from my childhood.

Today, because of your coaching, the quality of my life is completely different. I actually really dig who I am, and who I am evolving into each and every day. I no longer look in the outer world for validation or confirmation that I am enough! I know what possibilities lie ahead for me and they are endless!

I now know I have a gift to contribute to the world and realize the most loving and generous thing I can do is to forgive, love and nurture myself. As a result of putting me first amazingly, I’m making a difference in other peoples lives! It’s so interesting how being self-loving creates selflessness. Thank you for your loving guidance, at times a proverbial kick in the pants but mostly thank you for being non- judgmental, authentic and transparent.

You have been a wise guide on this journey of knowing Self.”

Tony Teegarden, Tampa. FL

Jana,

Thank you for the time and attention you gave me during the VIP retreat. I really felt your passion for what you do! I just couldn’t make sense of things from the death of my beloved. Although it was painful for me owning and embracing the dark beliefs I have held for so long about myself really liberated me.

I just want to say that all my angst and anger has been transformed and is being transformed into the opposites: peace and joy. I am accepting myself and settling into the truth that I am worthy and I deserve lasting love but first must give it to myself.

Thank you again for the hospitality, graciousness, toughness at times and for being genuine. I am forever grateful!

Colin Gilchrist, Calgary, Alberta, Canada